Any Black mother and father in this country must go to bed and
wake up every day with a heavy heart.
They wonder if today is going to be that day when they get a knock at
their door and they are greeted by a cold stare offering meaningless apologies.
When a child is brought into this world, its’ parent wishes for nothing more
than to see his or her child attain adulthood and take their place in society. But for Blacks in America, every day is an
inner nightmare. Blacks were brought up
the Hudson 400 years ago to build this country with their blood, sweat and
tears; yet every generation finds itself battling for acceptance and survival
in this country.
I came to this country over thirty years ago and I learned the
rules fast. In England, my eleven year
old son would go to the local playground to ride his bike, play with his
friends and I had the confidence that he would be safe. He went to the market most Saturday mornings alone
and would return with old coins, the latest album, or his favorite comic book. All that freedom to enjoy his surroundings
came to an abrupt end in that North-East Philadelphia neighborhood. The people made us know we did not belong. Mind you, these were “God-fearing” people who
“loved their God and Country” without limits, yet viewed us as space
aliens.
The first day of our new life in Philadelphia, my four year old
daughter tried to make friends with the neighborhood children playing in their
front yards. She was greeted with these
words from a parent: “Go back where you come from.” My daughter could not understand what that
meant, because we came from London, where she attended nursery school with
children of all ethnicities, and had never experienced such open and unwarranted
hostility from any adult. As a result, I
began to keep an even tighter rein on my children, especially my son, to whom I
had to explain why America was not like England. He was not allowed out by himself anymore,
not even to the neighborhood shop.
I must commend one little old lady for her bravery, because she
refused to participate in her neighbors’ plan to shun us. She made it her duty to come to my house to
inform me of their scheme. I sent them warning
through her that where I grew-up, no one messes with other people’s lives - or
they might live to regret it. For the
next eighteen months, I lived on that street with my head held high. My children became the darlings of some of
the neighbors, and my front yard was like a magnet for their children.
Americans may why wonder why I feel so strongly about the death of a Black boy in Florida that I
do not even know. I could be that young
boy’s grandmother waiting for him to return from an errand. Or, he could have been my son growing up in this country, where certain sections still seem
to exist in the dark ages.
“Hoodies” have become the signature clothing of most young
people in this country. And, for God
sake, why should people not be free to wear what the hell they like without fear
of being shot by hate-mongers? I
remember pulling the hood of my children’s coats snuggly around their faces to
keep out the biting, winter cold.
My son and daughter are now adults, but I sleep lightly. They are still being profiled, even though we
have always lived in so-called Middle class neighborhoods, or Suburbia. A few short years ago, my son and a work colleague
were returning from lunch, driving the speed limit, minding their business,
when my son noticed a police car following him.
If you know my son, he is extremely cautious in every facet of his life,
especially behind the wheel. Nonetheless,
he was followed all the way back to his place of work, and only then did the
police turn around and speed away.
Similarly, when my daughter was in college, she was stopped while
driving through our neighborhood. The officer
said she had a knitted hat on, and he could not see her face. He ticketed her for a rolling stop. Every driver in California does a rolling
stop with impunity. She fought it, and
the officer was never more surprised when she showed up in court, well-dressed
and well-spoken. The Judge gave her community
service at a local theater. These incidents
happened in Northern California. And quite
recently, my daughter, who still lives at home, had an officer follow her all
the way to our front door. Can anyone imagine
how frightening and unnerving that was for a hard-working, single woman returning
home late at night from a long commute?
People talk about democracy in America, and I do wonder if they
know what it means? They hate communism
and totalitarianism, but I think those Americans who want to take other people’s
rights to dress in whatever manner they deem suitable, are the real danger to freedom
in this country. Ten years ago, it was
the big shirts and baggy pants; before that it was the knitted hats - and now it’s
the hoodies. Get a life people, and live!
People are up in arms about “taking their country back” and some of them have not even been in America
one generation. Blacks have been here
generations too numerous to count; yet, they obviously still have no Civil Rights. Some American politicians running for the office
of President talk about colonizing space, and they can not even inhabit the
earth peacefully. How can Americans run
around the world expounding their warped rules on democratic freedom, when its’
own citizens live in fear of walking to a neighborhood store to buy candies? America will never be respected as a true world
super-power until it treats all of its’ legal citizens with respect and
dignity.
© 2012 Mouth Wired Shut
This article on the Internet ( "Does Sanya Richards-Ross’ long hair slow her down?” ) caught my attention this morning. I have
discussed this very issue at home while watching the Olympic games. However, I believe there is another more
sinister problem with Sports Competitors with long pony tails switching back
and forth during competitions, especially in Track & Field. In my opinion, these competitors are using
their hair as defensive weapons to intimidate and impede other
competitors. I have yet to see the
general public or Sport Officials wise-up to it. It is also surprising to me that there
haven’t been any serious eye injuries or facial lacerations reported. 
